Read the message.
Not the venom.
High-conflict co-parenting texts arrive loaded with hostility. Amicable strips it out and hands you the calm message and the real request. Only you sign up — the other parent just texts a number. Every original is kept, word for word.
It happens automatically
You never copy and paste, and you never have to read the hostile version first. The other parent's texts route through your Amicable number and reach you already calm.
You get an Amicable number
Give it to the other parent, or forward their number to it. Their texts arrive here first, not on your personal line.
We remove the hostility, keep the facts
Every message is de-escalated instantly. Dates, times, amounts, and real requests are preserved exactly. Nothing is invented, and a genuine safety threat is shown to you in full.
You receive the calm version
The genuine ask, plainly stated, without the stress. Reply normally — your replies are cleaned on the way out too, so you never send something you would regret.
Every original is kept, tamper-evident
Verbatim, time-stamped, hash-sealed. Organize and export it in a few taps when you and your attorney need it.
For the calm parent who keeps doing everything right.
You keep your messages civil for the record. They don't. Amicable protects you from the daily weight of the hostility, helps you never fire back something you'll regret, and quietly builds the clean, organized record your case needs.
A tamper-evident record
The cleaned message is for your peace of mind. The original is for your record. We never blur the two.
Word-for-word originals
Stored exactly as sent, never editable, never deleted.
Hash-chained integrity
Each message is time-stamped and linked by SHA-256, so any change is detectable.
Carrier corroboration
Carrier message IDs are retained to corroborate delivery.
Clean separation
Cleaned versions stay clearly apart from originals, so nothing is ever misrepresented.
Amicable keeps a tamper-evident record. Whether any record is admissible is up to the court and the rules of evidence — ask your attorney about using it in your case.
Simple monthly plans
Cancel anytime. You create your account and enter payment on the next step. Prices in USD.
- Your Amicable relay number
- Unlimited de-escalation, both directions
- Calm message plus the real request
- Originals stored verbatim with time stamps
- Everything in Starter
- Tamper-evident, hash-sealed message log
- Auto-categorized messages (schedule, financial, medical, threats)
- Mobile dashboard with search and filters
- Everything in Pro
- One-tap exhibit export (PDF) with integrity certificate
- Threat & harassment timeline
- Priority support
Questions about how it works? Read the FAQ.
Should we handle calls too?
We're weighing an option that also handles phone calls from the other parent: take a voicemail, de-escalate it, log it as evidence, and text you the calm version. Only the paying parent would ever answer. Worth building?