OurFamilyWizard is a legitimate, well-established product. It has been in family law circles for over two decades, it is widely recognized by attorneys and mediators, and it offers a genuinely full co-parenting suite: shared calendar, expense tracking, payments, a message center, and certified records on higher-tier plans. If you have seen it recommended in a parenting plan or heard about it from a lawyer, that reputation is earned. Where the two products diverge is narrower but meaningful: who has to sign up, what happens to a hostile message before you read it, and what the tamper-evident record is actually built to do. Those three differences will probably determine which product fits your situation better.
| Feature | OurFamilyWizard | Amicable |
|---|---|---|
| Both parents must sign up | Yes, each needs their own subscription | No. Only the paying parent signs up; the other just texts a number |
| Inbound message tone filtering | No. Messages arrive as written; Writing Assistant helps the sender | Yes. Hostility removed before the paying parent reads the message |
| Outbound message tone filtering | Writing Assistant (Essentials and above, sender-side) | Yes. Replies cleaned on the way out |
| Tamper-evident message archive | Certified records on Premium and Max plans | Hash-sealed, time-stamped originals on all plans |
| PDF exhibit export with integrity certificate | Available on certified record plans | Exhibit plan ($79/mo) |
| Shared calendar | Yes | No |
| Expense log and payments | Yes (OFWpay) | No |
| Calling | Yes, on most plans | No |
| Court recognition | Yes, widely recognized by family law professionals | No. Not court-ordered or court-recognized anywhere |
| Free third-party or professional accounts | Yes | No |
| Starting price | $9.17/mo (Basic, billed annually; verify current at ourfamilywizard.com) | $19/mo (Starter, billed monthly, cancel anytime) |
OurFamilyWizard (as listed on their pricing page in September 2026; verify current pricing at ourfamilywizard.com before purchasing):
Amicable (current, verified pricing):
On price alone, OurFamilyWizard's lower tiers are cheaper per person. The relevant comparison is whether you are paying for one subscription (Amicable) or two (OurFamilyWizard, one per co-parent), and whether the other parent will actually use it.
If both you and your co-parent are willing to use a shared platform, OurFamilyWizard is the stronger fit. It is especially the right choice if a court has specifically ordered it, if your attorney or mediator is already familiar with its certified records, or if you need tools beyond messaging: a shared parenting calendar, expense tracking, child-support payments, or a place to store medical and school information. It also makes sense if you have a guardian ad litem or therapist who should have read-only access, since those accounts are free. The platform assumes good-faith participation from both sides; if you have that, it delivers more features than Amicable does.
Amicable is the better fit if the other parent will not join a platform, refuses to download apps, or has shown no interest in cooperative co-parenting tools. It is also the right choice if your primary problem is not missing a calendar or expense log, but the daily experience of receiving hostile or threatening texts that affect your ability to respond calmly. Because Amicable filters messages before you read them, the emotional load of high-conflict communication is reduced regardless of what the other parent chooses to do. The tamper-evident archive is useful if you want a verifiable record of what was actually said, though we are direct that Amicable is not court-recognized and we make no admissibility claims. One thing to be clear about: if you need a full co-parenting suite with calendaring, payments, or calling, Amicable is not the right tool. We do one thing.
No. Only the paying parent signs up. The other parent texts a dedicated relay number. The first time they do, they receive a one-time notice that it is a logged co-parenting relay. After that they text normally and do not see your dashboard or the calm rewrites. OurFamilyWizard, by contrast, requires both parents to subscribe and actively use the platform.
No. OurFamilyWizard's Writing Assistant helps the person composing a message write more calmly, which is useful if the other parent chooses to use it. Messages still arrive as the other parent wrote them. Amicable removes hostility from inbound messages before they reach you, and cleans your replies on the way out, regardless of whether the other parent is trying to communicate civilly.
We store every original message word for word, time-stamped and hash-sealed, so any alteration is detectable. However, Amicable is not court-ordered or court-recognized anywhere, and we make no claim about admissibility. If court-recognized records are a specific requirement, OurFamilyWizard's Premium and Max plans include certified records that family law professionals already know how to work with.
Messages that look like a genuine safety threat are shown to you in full, not softened or stripped. Everyday insults and legal posturing like "I'll take you to court" are cleaned with the real point kept. We do not remove information you need to protect yourself or your children.
OurFamilyWizard's lower tiers start at $9.17/month per person (billed annually; verify current pricing). Amicable starts at $19/month for one subscription covering the paying parent. The practical comparison depends on whether OurFamilyWizard would require two subscriptions in your situation, and whether the other parent would actually use it. If they will not, the lower per-person price does not deliver the product as designed.
No. Amicable is a text relay and nothing else. There is no calendar, expense log, payment tool, or calling feature. If those tools are important to your co-parenting arrangement, OurFamilyWizard is the more complete option.
Sign-ups are not open yet. You can join the launch list at amicablehq.com to be notified when they do open. OurFamilyWizard is available now if you need a solution immediately.
If what you need most is to stop absorbing hostility before it reaches you, and to do that without asking the other parent to cooperate, Amicable is built for that situation. Join the launch list at amicablehq.com and we will notify you when sign-ups open.